Seek Help for Your Marriage ? Marriage Rescue Associates | Marriage Counseling

Posted on April 10, 2010 by

Charlotte, NC (January 19, 2010) – With over 23 years of experience, Marriage Rescue Associates have discovered many effective methods for helping couples restore their family and marriages. As Christian Marriage Counselors, Marriage Rescue Associates can help construct solutions to rekindle love and rebuild trust that has been torn down by endless conflict, indifference, and unmet needs.

Since most couples aren’t able to attend a Marriage Intensive in their own city, or even in their own state, 95% of our couples fly or drive to us from all over the country. We are located 10 minutes south of Charlotte, NC. We are a convenient 35 minutes from the Charlotte-Douglas International Airport.

Marriage Counseling Statement of Faith:

We believe that the Holy Bible is the inerrant Word of God. We believe in the Holy Trinity of God; the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit. We believe that Jesus was born of the Virgin Mary. He was and is the only one to ever live a sinless life. We believe that we are saved by Grace through Faith in Jesus Christ and His death, burial, and physical resurrection. We believe that the Blood of Jesus Christ shed on Calvary was and is sufficient to forgive man of all his sins. We believe in the physical and visible return of Jesus Christ to the earth.

Don’t let your marriage or family become another statistic when you can actually do something to change it.

Seek out Marriage Counseling from an experienced Marriage Counselor that understands your situation and makes you feel comfortable with them.

To learn more about Marriage Rescue Associates, visit us online at www.marriagerescue.org

With over 23 years of experience, Marriage Rescue Associates have discovered many effective methods for helping couples restore their family and marriages. As Christian Marriage Counselors, Marriage Rescue Associates can help construct solutions to rekindle love and rebuild trust that has been torn down by endless conflict, indifference, and unmet needs.

Don?t let your marriage or family become another statistic when you can actually do something to change it.

Seek out Marriage Counseling from an experienced Marriage Counselor that understands your situation and makes you feel comfortable with them.
Visit us online at www.marriagerescue.org

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Marriage Counseling – Respect and Boundaries in Marriage

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Many people think that boundaries are like a “keep out” fence that distance you from your spouse. In fact, appropriate boundaries bring you closer in Marriage. Respect is one of the foundational aspects of a close and healthy marriage. We all want and deserve respect. Below is a list of boundaries and ways to show your spouse respect. Employing these suggestions will have a very positive effect on your marriage.

Secrets are appropriate for birthdays and Christmas! Otherwise secrets are very damaging to a marriage. Secrets and lies are cousins. Secrets are unexpressed lies and have no place in a close relationship. Secrets often are about money and relationships. We do not have to share things from our past that we have repented of and that do not affect your relationship today.

 

Keep your mate’s flaws private. Do not discuss your spouse’s flaws with your family or friends. This is very disrespectful to your mate. The first person you should talk to is your spouse. Sit down and have an honest discussion about the problem. If your mate’s flaws become damaging to your relationship, seek out the help of your Pastor or a Counselor.

 

On a similar note, keep your marriage problems private. Seek help from your Pastor or seek Marriage Counseling. Sometimes even reading a good book on the subject may help; especially if the two of you read it together. Sharing your problems with family or friends tends to polarize the situation. Rarely, even if we are sure about it, is the person we go to objective. After all, they are our friend or family member and they care about us so much that they may not be objective.

 

It is important to create appropriate division of household chores and parenting responsibilities. In the current day and age often there are two wage earners in the home. When Mom stays at home with the kids, she can be just as, if not more exhausted than Dad.

 

In a Marriage, there is no place for close “personal “friends of the opposite sex. This can create significant problems in a relationship. Affairs often develop out of situations where a person goes to their friend because “they are not being understood” at home. When the “friend” steps in and fills that role it is fertile ground for an affair to develop. You may say that you are not that kind of person to let that happen. As Marriage Counselors, we hear those very words from many couples who come to us to try to heal from adultery. Be wise and make your spouse your only close friend of the opposite sex.

One of the biggest complaints people make when they come in for marriage counseling is that they do not feel like they are number one with their spouse. This is true for men and women. It could be friends, work, hobbies, extended family, children or many other things. The best marriages always have husband and wife putting their spouse first (after God).

Marriages thrive on closeness. Find ways to return to the closeness you once had. Look for ways to reduce boundaries between you and your spouse, leaving only healthy boundaries, and create healthy boundaries between your relationship and the outside world that protects your marriage.

About Marriage Rescue Associates | Marriage Counseling

With over 23 years of experience, Marriage Rescue Associates have discovered many effective methods for helping couples restore their family and marriages. As Christian Marriage Counselors, Marriage Rescue Associates can help construct solutions to rekindle love and rebuild trust that has been torn down by endless conflict, indifference, and unmet needs.

Don?t let your marriage or family become another statistic when you can actually do something to change it.

Seek out Marriage Counseling from an experienced Marriage Counselor that understands your situation and makes you feel comfortable with them.

To learn more about Marriage Rescue Associates, visit us online at www.marriagerescue.org

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Posted on April 8, 2010 by

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Building Spiritual Intimacy In Marriage

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There is a limit on how close a couple can be to each other if they are not also close to God.  Not only individually close to God, but close as a couple as well.

In our Marriage Counseling practice most of the couples who come to us want a deeper spiritual life together. How does a couple get closer to God?

The first thing to do is plan/prepare. Sit down as a couple to talk about the things that have made you feel close to God in the past or that you think would make you close to God in the present. Make two lists.  It would be common for each spouse to have different ideas. Since this article is about getting closer to God as a couple, look at the two lists to see if there is anything you could do together.

Set yourselves up for success. See if there is an item that both of you have on your lists (for instance prayer). Talk about how you both like to pray, when to pray, and where to pray. The goal is to come into agreement on how you would like to go about praying as a couple. There is an old saying that couples that pray together stay together.

Getting started is the easy part. The more difficult part is to be consistent with your new goal. Let’s look at some things that would help. You can start with setting a specific time each day. If setting a time each day is too rigid a couple might try setting a sequence, i.e. breakfast, dress, make bed, prayer. Also a couple might arrange accountability with another couple who would like to also improve their spiritual life together.

Once you have started your new goals and practiced them for a period of time, perhaps 30 days, it will become second nature to you and it will require much less effort to sustain.

The strongest thing that you can then do as a couple is to turn outward to help other people.  Volunteer at church, help out at a shelter or soup kitchen, or visit a sick friend. If your schedule is too busy to help others, then you are too busy. Purposely helping others will be a life changing experience.

Taking turns reading aloud from a book that helps you get closer to God is very effective. When you read aloud you both experience the words at the same time and can have very meaningful discussions on the content.

Praying for each other is an excellent tool and life changing experience. We recommend buying and using Stormy Ormartian’s Power of a Praying Husband and Power of a Prating Wife as great tools for those who are not experience at praying for each other.

Nothing is more important and effective than reading the Bible. My wife and I read the same Chapter at the same time. We highlight the verses that are the most meaningful to us and then discuss together.

In our Christian Marriage Counseling practice we see that couples that are close to God heal the fastest even if they come to us in crisis. We also see that those couples who have not been close to God and close to each other before they came, but make the decision to change have great success in healing their hurts and regaining a true “closeness”.

About Marriage Rescue Associates | Marriage Counseling

With over 23 years of experience, Marriage Rescue Associates have discovered many effective methods for helping couples restore their family and marriages. As Christian Marriage Counselors, Marriage Rescue Associates can help construct solutions to rekindle love and rebuild trust that has been torn down by endless conflict, indifference, and unmet needs.

Don’t let your marriage or family become another statistic when you can actually do something to change it.

Seek out Marriage Counseling from an experienced Marriage Counselor that understands your situation and makes you feel comfortable with them.

To learn more about Marriage Rescue Associates, visit us online at www.marriagerescue.org

About Marriage Rescue Associates | Marriage Counseling

With over 23 years of experience, Marriage Rescue Associates have discovered many effective methods for helping couples restore their family and marriages. As Christian Marriage Counselors, Marriage Rescue Associates can help construct solutions to rekindle love and rebuild trust that has been torn down by endless conflict, indifference, and unmet needs.

Don’t let your marriage or family become another statistic when you can actually do something to change it.

Seek out Marriage Counseling from an experienced Marriage Counselor that understands your situation and makes you feel comfortable with them.

To learn more about Marriage Rescue Associates, visit us online at www.marriagerescue.org

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Shape up your Marriage with Marital Help Fitness routines that work wonders

Posted on April 8, 2010 by

The latest statistics show that 60% of marriages end in divorce. Not all marriages have to end in divorce. Just like a fitness routine helps you to start getting in the habit of working out and getting in shape so does marriage fitness. There are a lot of ways to help prevent this. You will first want to figure out why you are not happy. Maybe it is from infidelity, boredom, lack of communication or just the lack of appreciation. No matter what the cause of your unhappiness, you want to make things better.

Baltimore, Maryland March 13, 2009 — There are many different things that can cause problems in a marriage. Whether it is because you feel like you are not in love with your spouse anymore or just feel like too much has happened that has made you grow apart. No matter the circumstances there is always time to shape up your marriage.

One of the best things that you can do to fix your marriage is to get some Marital Help. One way to do this is not just getting some counseling but actually whipping your marriage into shape. What I mean by this is that you need to get some steps in place. Most couples start out by trying to get some counseling. This not always works but ends up doing the opposite and puts more stress on the marriage. The reason for this is you start to play the blame game and start pointing out what the other person does and what they have done in the past.

If you are asking yourself; how do I Save My Marriage? One thing that you might want to look into is marriage fitness. Just like a fitness routine helps you to start getting in the habit of working out and getting in shape so does marriage fitness. The difference is that it helps you to start a routine that helps you get in the habit of communicating better or help you both get out of the rut your marriage might be in.

No matter what the problem is in your marriage you can always start with small steps. One of the best small steps you can make is subscribing to an e-mail marriage service. This is something that will help give you secrets that can help save your marriage.

There are many success stories out there that have sprouted just from taking the first initiative step and signing up for a free e-mail. They then started receiving information on marriage fitness. As a result, their spouses started to realize that their significant other really did care about their marriage and wanted to make things work. Another couple had tried marriage counselor after marriage counselor off and on for four years. They then decided to take another route and found that using marriage fitness helped them accomplish more in a shorter amount of time than 3 marriage counselors were able to do in the whole length of time. It was only when the couple had decided that it was no use and they were throwing in the towel that they found their answer.

Obviously, there is no one thing is going to work for every couple that is having marital problems. More people know what doesn’t work for them than what does. This is why you will want to make sure to take your time and do your research. Make sure that you explore all your options. You will want to make sure that you try a couple of things before you spend thousands of dollars on one thing that ends up being not for you.

The best way to explore your options is to see what services you can get for free to try out. This way you will be able to get an idea of what may work best on how to save your marriage. The best way to do this is by signing up for e-mail marriage services that are going to help you by ideas and tips.

For more information on marriage fitness you can go to http://www.marriagemax.com/tip.asp. Here you will be able to sign up for free marriage help articles and learn how to change your attitude and behavior. Help shape up your marriage by getting the marriage fitness you need.

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Lenox Forevermore Flute, Set of 2

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  • Crafted of crystal and silver plated metal, this set of 2 fine flutes makes any celebration more special
  • The silver plated metal forms an open heart design on each flute for an elegant, romantic touch
  • Each flute measures 9-1/2 inches high and holds up to 4 ounces
  • Hand wash and dry for best care
  • A great gift idea for newlyweds, or couples celebrating special anniversaries

Product Description
A toast to the future as husband and wife. When these exquisite Lenox flutes are filled and raised high in toast, they are symbolic of the couple’s life together – filled with joys and blessings throughout the years. The silverplated metal forms an open heart design on each flute for an elegant, romantic touch…. More >>

Lenox Forevermore Flute, Set of 2

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Best Weddings in Toronto

Posted on April 8, 2010 by

Toronto is an extremely picturesque place in Canada with a culture that boasts of the French, the Canadian, the American. With so many diverse cultures, marriages are elaborate affairs here and as different from each other as you will see. Wedding in Toronto is planned and stylized with great care and extreme style. Local vendors like “Best for Bride” have an assortment of wedding ideas and planning teams which can make any wedding a day to remember. From the guest books and the Pen sets to the bridal showers and the bridal dresses, everything is organized and managed by them.

They have the most amazing designs for bridal trousseaus and tuxedos for bridegrooms. The bridesmaids and the best men are taken care off as one big family and everyone who is present at the wedding is surely treated to some worthy Canadian royalty and grandeur. White weddings are basically theme weddings. The complete white marriage experience comprise of an organizer, a singing group, flowers, flowers for collar and memorial marriage leaflets  which need to be prepared and bought. And all details are taken care off extremely efficiently. Wedding in Toronto are also a favorite amongst the folk residing there. Beach weddings, night weddings, candle lit weddings you name it and you have it in Toronto.

The Cakes are one of the most integral parts of the day and those are also available in a variety of flavors, shapes and sizes. It all depends on how much you are willing to put in the wedding that matters. Toronto, with its huge banquets and amazing landscaping, pays host to some of the most amazing wedding settings ever witnessed. White weddings, night weddings, theme weddings, and the list never ends. There’s party till the night turns into morning and it is brilliant fun to actually witness a spectacle like a Canadian wedding. It’s an experience of a lifetime and the Canadians sure know how to liven that day up for the people present. So in Toronto, you would always find that the weddings are lavish, over the top, and surely, an affair to cherish.

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Destin Florida Beach Weddings And Panama City Beach Florida Beach Weddings

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Can you imagine getting married barefoot with your toes in the sand with the sun setting behind you and the waves crashing just right?  You can do that right here in Destin, Florida or Panama City Beach, Florida.  The Emerald coast is a popular area for Destination Beach Weddings.  Whether you stay in a condo in Destin or a beach house in Panama City Beach you can hire a beach wedding company to come right to you and provide a bamboo wedding arbor draped with beautiful fabric, a rose petal aisle way,a bouquet of tropical flowers that you’ll love, and professional photography for your beach wedding in Destin. Many families travel to Destin, Florida year after year for vacation and then either renew their vows on the beach or plan their daughter’s beach wedding. Destination weddings tend to be small and intimate with only your closest friends and family.  Celebrate when you travel back to your home town with a reception for those who couldn’t make it to your beach wedding in Panama City Beach.  Many of the rental companies in Destin, Florida or Panama City Beach, Florida have staff on hand to help guide you to the appropriate resort for your wedding on the beach.  There are also two state parks in the area that are a beautiful location for your beach wedding.  Henderson State Park in Destin for your beach wedding or St. Andrew’s State Park in Panama City Beach for your beach wedding.  Be sure to ask your beach wedding planner if there are fees to hold a beach wedding at either state park or at the resort that you have chosen for your destination beach wedding in Florida.  Destin weddings are amazing and there are three airports to fly in to, Panama City Beach airport, Fort Walton Beach airport and Pensacola airport.  March thru October are the best months to travel to Florida for your beach wedding. Happy Travels!!

Amazing wedding held on the beaches of St. Andrew’s State Park, Panama City Beach, Florida.

Full service beach wedding company in Destin, Florida, Fort Walton Beach, Florida and Panama City Beach Florida, providing professional photography,beach wedding decor and officiants.DJ Services are also offered for your beach wedding reception or special event.

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